When we got to his office, he brought out a tape recorder and a tape. He said "Oh, this tape are three short recordings ①made by three people who came to me for help. Listen to the recordings of these three people and pick out the tow-word phrase that ②each of them use." The three people all seemed very unhappy. The first man ③had suffered a business failure. The next woman had never married; she ④spoke sadly of all the chances of marriage she had ⑤let go by. The third voice belonged to a mother whose teenage son was in jail ; she blamed herself.